Looking For Private Bedroom Or Whole Apartment

hi! i am looking for a room in the Boston area (or whole apartment).
i do not have a specific hard move-in date i’m looking for as i currently have my own apartment however, ideally, i would want to move in between September and November.
a bit about me - i belong to multiple parts of the 2slgbtqia+ community (trans*, sapphic, demiace, to name a few), am pretty much a huge nerd (two of my special interests for forever have been music and anime/manga), i love most animals, i can be pretty quiet until i get comfy, and i’m a night owl/work late nights (i am respectful of those not awake late).
for work, i work in the transportation business with our wonderful MBTA (with that said, i’m not a spokesperson for them so please go to our Customer Service site/phone number if you have specific questions about things the company is doing).
as for the type of room i’m looking for - ideally just my own space that’s large enough for a queen bed and dresser both. a private bathroom would be amazing but i’m fine with sharing as well.
must-have’s/dealbreakers - the household being 2slgbtqia+ (allies are lovely however i do wish to live with fellow community folx), a place where there aren’t large parties every week (i’m not anti-socializing, i just don’t want to always have 20+ people around. once in awhile but not weekly), and in-house laundry.
also, not technically a must-have but if y’all have cats specifically, i will be so happy 🥹😻